I am coming out of a 20 y.o. monogamous marriage, looking to experience my submissive side. Not necessarily looking for hubby n. 2, but I am interested in a real, committed dynamic, not casual play or just sex.
These are hard limits for me:
- do not be a closeted man with a vanilla life partner you're cheating on,
- do not be a smoker (occasional weed is fine),
- do not be younger than 40+,
- please speak English as most of my social and professional life revolves around it,
- I will not be sending photographs online to anyone, but I am willing to meet in person over coffee.
Disclaimer: my trust is not easily gained, my barriers are higher than most are willing to deal with. If you're educated and mature enough, you will see through these obstacles. I offer total honesty and come with my had bowed. ;)
Interests in BDSM
I would try
24/7, Bite, Breast torture, Breath controll, Chains, Chastity belt, Chinese ball, Closure, Doctor fetish, Electrosex, Gangbang, Humiliation, Mazochism, Pens, Sadism, Stocks, Tickling, Tweak
Maybe
High heels, Massage, Masturbation, Menstruation, Oral sex (receive), Prostate massage, Rubber, Spanking
Exciting
Blindfolds, Bondage, Candle, CBT, Collar, Cross, Dildos, Dirty talk, Domination, Hair pulling, Leather, Lingerie, Nipples, Oral sex (give), Other tools, Pain, Public sex, Punishment, Role playing, Slaps, Stocking, Vibrators, Whip
Interests outside of BDSM
Leisure
Animals, Billiard, Bowling, Concerts, Cycling, Dance, Fitness, Hiking, Museum, Party, Ping-pong, Play, Reading, Restaurant, Talking, Tennis, Theater, Walking
Music
Classical, Country, Heavy metal, Hip-hop, Latin, Pop, Rap, Rock
Movies
Comedy, Crimi, Drama, Romantical, Sci-fi, Series, Sex/porn, Talk show, Thriller
Books
Novel, Novels, Poems