Seducing is a high form of art, seduction triggers the strongest possible emotions in many different ways.
Intelligence is the key factor and there is nothing more erotic than exploring our common kinky fetishes with a person of strong bond and mutual attraction :)
Interests in BDSM
I would try
Bite, Blood, Breath controll, Candle, Chains, Chinese ball, Closure, Collar, Cross-dressing, Doctor fetish, Enema, Foot worship, Gangbang, High heels, Knife, Latex, Mask, Oral sex (give), Oral sex (receive), Pain, Pens, Piss, Public sex, Stocking, Stocks
Maybe
Boot fetish, CBT, Chastity belt, Fisting
Exciting
24/7, Anal plays, Anal sex (give), Anal sex (receive), Ass licking, Blindfolds, Bondage, Breast torture, Dildos, Dirty talk, Domination, Film, Hair pulling, Humiliation, Leather, Lingerie, Massage, Masturbation, Mazochism, Needle, Nippers, Nipples, Other tools, Pet play, Photo shooting, Piercing, Prostate massage, Punishment, Role playing, Sadism, Slaps, Spanking, Tickling, Tweak, Vibrators, Whip
Interests outside of BDSM
Leisure
Animals, concerts, Museum, Sailing, Swimming pool, Talking
Music
Alternative, Classical, Country, Electronic, Folk, Hip-hop, Jazz, Latin, Reggae, rhythm'n'blues, Rock'n'roll, soul, techno