My name is Katja. I never tried real BDSM but I really want to.* For me it takes time to take actions so if you are an unpatient person, you should really skip this profile. ;)
I'm interested more in the psychological part than in the pain side of this game.** You should never hit me just to show you are in controlI.*** I want to be submissive by a choice but that choice cannot come if i don't think that you can dominate me, and dominate me with respect.
I collected in bullet points from my favourite blogs what I want from my future Dom.
My ideal DOM thinks:
-A Dom cherishes and loves his sub for "Her Gift" of submission.
-A Dom takes the time to build that trust and rapport with a sub by understanding her sexual interests, past experiences, fears/concerns, kinks/fetishes and limits.
-The concept behind a power-exchange relationship is based on respect and the earnest desire to be a positive, healthy, mate.
-The role of a submissive is most-often a temporary state a woman chooses to take on for a play session or an evening or set time period. After that period is over, you revert to roles of equals.
will be continued...
I wrote my profile in 2014. I still like it that way so I will not change anything but add few things.
*I tried it already. I had 3! soft bdsm seances.
** Turned out I like it but still not a masochist.
***Still true, that is more like spice than ground.
Dominant Female, Dominant Male
Age: 25-40 year Height: 180- cm Weight: -90 kg
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Aim of search
Occasional-BDSM/sexual-relationship / Permanent, casual BDSM / sexual relationship
Interests in BDSM
I would try
Candle, Collar, Cross-dressing, Nippers, Pens
Blindfolds, Bondage, Chains, Dirty talk, Hair pulling, Oral sex (give), Oral sex (receive), Pain, Punishment, Spanking, Whip
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37 / 37 years old
Dominant / Dominant
Male / Female
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