Blog - Domogor

Blogs » Blog - Domogor
Domogor (51)
Dominant
Male, Hetero
  • Has blog 
Ordering:
Newest BDSM blogs
Most commented blogs in last month
Latest commented BDSM blogs
Pages: 1/1
Everyone's a switch
No, really. Every single person on Earth. Including myself of course, even though I always claim to be 100% dominant – but let me tell you something, but please don't tell anyone: it's not true. We're all a mixed bag of different characteristics, some of these are more typically male, others are more typically female and the same goes for dominant and submissive characteristics too. What's more: the mix of these characteristics that make up our personality is constantly changing, evolving,...
Appeared: 01. 03. 17:01 | Latest comment: 01. 04. 03:00 | Number of comments: 6
Casual degradation
One of my favourite things is casual degradation. There’s nothing more beautiful than mixing kink, control, domination, degradation, sadism, abuse and extreme perversions into a truly loving, happy, balanced relationship – and doing so in a perfectly natural, casual way. Imagine being cuddled tight, kissed on the forehead and being called 'my little cocksucker whore' in the same tone I’d call you ‘love’ or some other cute nickname. Imagine taking a bath and I come in to tell you about...
Appeared: 01. 02. 21:17 | Latest comment: 01. 02. 22:18 | Number of comments: 2
Words
There is no such thing as a curse word. Words don’t curse – people who misuse and abuse them do. The so-called curse words are nothing short of beautiful as long as you use them in the right context. There’s nothing wrong with telling your lover “please fuck my cunt real deep”. I find that beautiful. On the other hand, I cringe every time I hear someone telling a girl “show me your fucking pussy” or anything similar, because that’s just wrong and it hurts my ear. Words are innocent;...
Appeared: 2019. 10. 03. 10:01 | Latest comment: 01. 03. 14:54 | Number of comments: 2
and whatever you do, do it with kindness and love
Yes, that can even include sadism, degradation, CNC etc. Everything can be done with care, love and kindness. No shouting, no anger, no swearing. Love has no place for those. You can still be strict, you can still punish your sub, you can still use and train her really hard – that doesn’t mean you have to be a prick. Always communicate kindly. If you’re going to discipline her, explain to her why you’re going to hurt her – make sure she understands it’s not because you’re mad at her or...
Appeared: 2019. 09. 30. 07:29 | Latest comment: Never | Number of comments: 0
Until you're mine
One of the toughest things in online dating if you’re into BDSM is how to tell whether the person you’re speaking to is genuinely dominant/submissive or not – and this is where most of the bad decisions are made by both doms and subs. So please allow me to share a few thoughts (based on my own experience), and if I can help just one person making the wrong choice that could lead to an abusive relationship, writing this was already worth it for me. Let me focus on those of us for whom BDSM...
Appeared: 2019. 08. 14. 18:19 | Latest comment: 2019. 08. 14. 22:14 | Number of comments: 1
Being a true Dom
You’re now thinking that “OK, yet another guy trying to tell me what to do when I know very well how to be a Dom”. But actually I’m not trying to tell you how to be a Dom, how to dominate a girl and how to get what you need from her. A lot of you guys already know how to do that. I’m trying to tell you how to give her what she needs as that is what makes someone a true Dom in my (and more importantly: her) eyes. Living in a D/s relationship can be wonderful and it is so appealing,...
Appeared: 2019. 07. 15. 17:34 | Latest comment: Never | Number of comments: 0